Dr Roza Olyai
Director Olyai Hospital, Gwalior, MP
Email:
rolyai@hotmail.com
Inability
to conceive is one of the common problems among the many
conditions bringing a woman to a gynecologist for
treatment. In daily practice I have observed that often
the lady may come for the first consultation with
another female relative often her mother, sister,
mother-in-law, sister-in-law etc. In such cases, the
husband is often unavailable during this initial
consultation. I strongly feel that social problems often
need to be tackled in such cases as many a male partner
refuses to acknowledge his potential role in the
situation. With all this in mind, I give much importance
to husband’s presence in all first visits.
Whenever
the couple are available together for consultation, I
take detailed history regarding complaints,
menstrual pattern, relevant occupational details,
previous unsuccessful pregnancies which they may have
discounted, history of any instrumentation such as D&C
for diagnostic or therapeutic purpose, medical history
regarding tuberculosis, diabetes etc.
Sexual
history gives me important additional information in
such couples to pinpoint problems such as infrequent or
irregular intercourse, premature ejaculation, dyspareunia etc which can have a direct bearing on
fertility potential Since some times
questions are difficult to ask from the couples in our
busy practice when in OPD as either the staff is moving
around or the patients may come with their other
relatives, hence, I have started giving them a form with
questions like private coital history in detail to be
filled up by the husband and wife together at home which
they return to me on the next day. This I
feel gives freedom to the couple to explain their
problems in detail. After reading their
form I write down the positive points in their case
paper and tear down their form in order to keep their
privacy.
Next I
try to evaluate all previous reports of investigations
as well as the treatment details if available, which the
couple has got done earlier during the course of
undergoing treatment
After
history and a detailed clinical examination of the
couple, I always explain in simple terms, the normal
process of reproduction utilizing visual aids such as
simple diagrams or pictures of the reproductive system.
A visual impression accompanied by a short description
of the various factors which can be responsible for
difficulty in conception helps to motivate the couple to
cooperate in treatment. A basic understanding of the
reproductive process also explains the need for
investigations as indicated by history and clinical
examination.
I usually
give baseline investigations to the couple when they
first approach me for the treatment of sub-fertility. I
feel that simply making a long list of investigations
without adequate explanation of the role of such
investigations is not helpful in their management. I
strongly feel that, individualizing the approach to
management of the couple goes a long way in arriving at
a diagnosis and also helps in reducing the financial
burden they have to bear. I even tell them about the
limits of various treatment modalities and discuss the
optimum number of trials of a particular drug or
intervention, keeping guidelines for the patient’s
safety in mind.
I usually
give folic acid supplementation (if not advised earlier
or stopped by the couple) in such women trying for
conception with a simple explanation of its utility in
healthy child-bearing.On the very first visit, I
emphasize on the importance of regular follow up and a
dedicated, timely approach to following instructions
given to them.
I my
experience I realized that using such an approach while
treating couples with the problem of sub-fertility helps
to develop confidence in them as well as clear any
doubts or misconceptions they may have harbored.
Often I
find that these couples are frustrated and tired after
long drawn-out treatment, I have experienced that a
patient hearing and a sympathetic, yet systematic
approach can go a long way in helping them tackle their
situation more optimistically with better chances of a
favorable outcome. |